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Intense pressure to do well in school is the biggest worry of young people today, according to a survey by the Girl Scouts of America. Here are some practical tips for parents to follow to reduce stress:
• After you watch your child in an athletic event try to focus on the fun of participating rather than on who won or lost.
• When your child brings home a test, first talk about what she got right.
• When your child helps you with a household chore, thank him for his help and talk about one thing he did especially well.
• Does most of your conversation with your child focus on the things she hasn’t done? (“Clean your room!” “You forgot to feed the dog.”) Try to say something positive as often as possible?
Getting the most from parent-teacher conferences
• Think about what you want to learn in the conference. Prepare some questions.
• Talk with your child. Ask what she thinks the teacher will say. Ask if she has any concerns. And talk about likes, dislikes, problems and successes.
• Ask the teacher to explain anything you don’t understand. Special programs for children are sometimes referred to by their initials.
• Be prepared to talk and listen. Tell the teacher what you see at home. Talk about your child’s interests. Tactfully talk about any concerns. And be sure to let the teacher know about anything that might affect your child’s learning.
• Follow up. Stay in touch with the teacher. If you think of a question you didn’t ask, write a note.
—John H. Wherry, Parent Institute
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